Thursday, June 3, 2010
I was the worst mother when I refused to allow my then chubby 12 year old to wear a stylish but short skirt. I was firm, but she pressed back with everything she had.
I knew it was hard to find stylish clothes to fit her, so I knew my input was devastating. More than wanting her to feel pretty, I wanted her to dress tastefully and understand modesty.
I agreed: we’d ask her father’s input. He was a fair man and had balanced my more stringent cultural background on different occasions, so she had a shred of hope.
When he agreed that the outfit was unbecoming for our daughter, her eyes flashed and her words nailed the air with disgust.
However, it became a marker in her life. Despite the anger she felt, she remembers that we cared enough to stand up for her best.
Sometimes God insists on His way despite what we've clearly told Him was best. Thankfully, our anger does not deter His goodness ... and we live to thank Him.
That’s when we look back and appreciate the firm Kindness that covered us.
For Your Consideration
"As the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts" (Isaiah 55:9, NIV)
Can you recall an incident that seemed devasting but which actually worked to your benefit in the long run?